Maya, on the other hand, seems to be flourishing this spring. Instead of melt down after melt down I am hearing more laughter from her and she is much easier to reason with. Her spunky personality is starting to shine through again and she makes us laugh pretty much everyday. She currently has a list of all of the things she is going to start doing when she turns four. These include eating tomatoes and mushrooms as well as writing her name. (She can actually write her own name but doesn't think that she should have to until she turns four!) She is going to give her teachers a run for their money one day.
With a growing tummy following us all around, the excitement of another family member is growing. Maya was shouting with delight last night as she counted on her fingers 3 sisters! Both of the girls are thrilled to be welcoming another little sister. Talk of Georgia has only increased as we slowly get ready for our next one. I am very aware that most, if not all of the actual memories Calla and especially Maya have will be replaced with memories of this new little one but we are trying hard to keep Georgie's short life a part of them. This is done mostly through talking and looking at pictures. Maya also carries and sleeps with Georgia's bunny most of the time.
While I thought that March and April would be extremely difficult months we are all doing just fine so far. It's hard to be sad when the sun is shining, the birds are chirping and our kids are happy and healthy for the most part. We are planning on taking off for a couple of days around the 21st but other than that we are just taking it one day at a time.
Love to you all,
Kristen
As another week has passed without chatting I am so glad to hear things are going better, especially with Calla's cold! I am sure some days are better than others but I am glad to hear you are heading into spring with a house full of love and laughter! You are right, a lot of the girls memories will be replaced, but the values they learned from Georgia, from you and Mike and this whole journey will be with them forever! They have learned so much about love and life, and Maya being excited about having 3 sisters just shows what an awesome job you have done.
ReplyDeleteThis week we will chat for sure, but until then, hugs and love to you all, Em